“A soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.”
 

Proverbs 15:1 (ESV)

Hey folks, it’s Dan here. You know, in all my years of working in transportation and running businesses, I’ve seen firsthand the power of a kind word. Just like a well-tuned engine keeps a truck running smoothly, encouraging words keep our relationships on the right track.

Proverbs 15:1 tells us, “A soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.” This verse is a great reminder of how our words can either calm a storm or fan the flames. When we choose to speak gently and with kindness, we can diffuse tense situations and build stronger connections.

I remember a time when I had a heated disagreement with a colleague. We were both frustrated, and the conversation was heading south fast. But then, I took a deep breath, softened my tone, and focused on understanding his perspective. It wasn’t easy, but it made all the difference. Instead of escalating the conflict, we found common ground and worked things out. That experience taught me a valuable lesson about the power of a soft answer.

In our daily interactions—whether with family, friends, or coworkers—our words have the power to uplift and inspire. A simple “thank you” or “I appreciate you” can brighten someone’s day and strengthen our bonds. It’s like adding a bit of grease to the gears, making everything run more smoothly.

But let’s be real: life gets busy, stress piles up, and sometimes we snap or say things we regret. When that happens, it’s important to pause, reflect, and make amends. Apologizing and offering kind words afterward can heal the hurt and restore harmony.

Encouraging communication isn’t about sugarcoating everything or avoiding tough conversations. It’s about being honest and direct, but with a heart full of empathy and respect. When we speak with kindness, we show others that we value and care about them.

So, let’s make a habit of communicating encouragement in our relationships. It’s like planting seeds of positivity that will grow and flourish, creating a garden of strong, healthy connections.

Take Action Items

• Speak Life: Make a conscious effort to say something encouraging to at least one person each day. Whether it’s a compliment, a thank you, or a word of support, your positive words can make a big difference.

   

• Listen Actively: Show that you value the other person by listening without interrupting. Let them share their thoughts and feelings, and respond with empathy.

   

• Write Notes of Appreciation: Take a few minutes to write a note or send a message to someone you appreciate. Let them know how much they mean to you and why.

   

• Practice Patience: When you feel frustration rising, take a deep breath and choose to respond with a soft answer. This can help de-escalate tension and promote understanding.

   

• Reflect on Your Words: At the end of each day, think about the words you used. Were they kind and encouraging? If not, consider how you can improve tomorrow.

   

• Be Quick to Apologize: If you’ve spoken harshly, don’t hesitate to apologize. A sincere “I’m sorry” followed by kind words can heal and restore relationships.

   

• Encourage Open Dialogue: Foster an environment where honest and respectful communication is encouraged. Make it safe for others to express their thoughts and feelings.

   

• Scripture Reminders: Keep Proverbs 15:1 visible—on your desk, fridge, or phone. Let it serve as a daily reminder to respond with kindness.

   

• Accountability Partner: Find someone you trust to hold you accountable in your journey of encouraging communication. Check in with each other regularly about your progress and share any challenges or victories.

   

• Celebrate Small Wins: Acknowledge and celebrate the moments when you successfully communicate encouragement. It’ll motivate you to keep it up!